The Necessity Of Our Faith

 

BEING FAITHFUL WITH OUR FAITH!
(Part Two: The Necessity Of Our Faith)

The Necessity of Our Faith

John 11:25–26

Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?”

Faith is not optional for the Christian life. It is not a spiritual accessory or a religious hobby. Scripture makes this unmistakably clear: “Without faith it is impossible to please God” (Hebrews 11:6).  

But the necessity of faith reaches even deeper than our daily walk with God. Faith is essential because it is the very means by which we receive salvation, hope, and eternal life. Nowhere is this truth more beautifully displayed than in Jesus’ conversation with Martha outside the tomb of her brother Lazarus.

1. Jesus Reveals the Source of Resurrection

Martha believed in a future resurrection—something that would happen “on the last day.” But Jesus redirects her hope from a distant event to a present Person.

He doesn’t say, “I can resurrect.”  
He says, “I am the resurrection.”
He doesn’t say, “I can give life.”  
He says, “I am the life.”
Resurrection is not merely a doctrine.  
Eternal life is not merely a promise.  
Both are found in Christ Himself.
Faith is necessary because eternal life is not found anywhere else.

2. Jesus Declares the Promise of Eternal Life

Jesus gives Martha two astonishing truths:
“The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.”  
 Physical death is not the end for the believer.

 It becomes a doorway, not a destination.
“Whoever lives by believing in me will never die.”  
  Eternal life begins now. It is not postponed until heaven; it is the present possession of all who trust in Christ.
Faith is necessary because only belief in Jesus bridges the gap between earthly death and eternal life.

3. Jesus Asks the Question That Confronts Every Heart

After revealing who He is and what He offers, Jesus turns to Martha with a question that echoes across centuries:
“Do you believe this?”
Not—  
Do you understand this?  
Do you agree with this theologically?  
Do you feel inspired by this?
But—  
Do you believe this?
Faith is not passive. It demands a response.  
It is not inherited. It must be personally embraced.  
It is not theoretical. It must be lived.

4. Our Answer Matters More Than Anything Else

Jesus’ question to Martha is His question to us today.
Do you believe that He is the resurrection?  
Do you believe that He is the life?  
Do you believe that eternal life is found in Him alone?  
Do you believe that death is not the end for those who trust Him?
Your answer shapes your eternity.  
Your answer shapes your hope.  
Your answer shapes your life today.
Faith is necessary because everything God promises hinges on our trust in His Son.

Reflection

As we continue in this series, "Being Faithful With Our Faith," this passage invites us to examine not just the strength of our faith, but the object of our faith. Jesus doesn’t ask Martha to muster more belief—He invites her to place her belief in Him.
And He invites us to do the same.
So what is your answer to Jesus today?  
Not just with your words, but with your life, your choices, your trust, and your hope.

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How To Develop Faith In God?

 

BEING FAITHFUL WITH OUR FAITH!

(Part One: How To Develop Faith In God?)

How to Develop Faith in God?

Faith is not something we stumble into by accident. It doesn’t appear out of thin air, nor does it grow without intention. Scripture gives us a clear starting point:

“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” — Romans 10:17

If faith comes by hearing God’s Word, then developing faith begins with opening our hearts to what God has already spoken. But why does this matter so much? Why is faith essential for the journey of life?

The writer of Hebrews answers this with striking clarity:

“Without faith it is impossible to please God.” — Hebrews 11:6

That’s a bold statement. It confronts us with a question many people quietly carry: Why should I try to please a God I’m not even sure exists? And if He does exist, why should I trust Him with my life?

These are honest questions—especially in a society that elevates human ability, human achievement, and human independence. We live in a culture that says, “You are enough. You can handle it. You don’t need God.” But if that were true, our world wouldn’t be unraveling the way it is. Humanism promises self‑sufficiency, but it delivers exhaustion, confusion, and emptiness.

God offers something radically different: a life anchored in truth, guided by His wisdom, and strengthened by His presence. But to receive what He offers, we must learn to trust Him—and that trust begins with faith.

Why Faith in God Matters for the Journey of Life

1. Faith anchors us in something greater than ourselves

When life is smooth, it’s easy to believe we’re in control. But storms have a way of exposing our limits. Faith reminds us that we are not alone, not abandoned, and not left to figure everything out by ourselves.

2. Faith opens the door to God’s guidance

God longs to direct our steps, but He doesn’t force His way into our decisions. Faith positions us to hear Him, follow Him, and experience His wisdom in real time.

3. Faith allows us to receive what God wants to give

Hebrews 11:6 doesn’t just say God exists—it says He rewards those who diligently seek Him. Faith is the posture that receives God’s blessings, strength, and direction.

4. Faith transforms how we interpret trials

Without faith, trials feel pointless. With faith, trials become classrooms where God shapes us, strengthens us, and reveals His faithfulness.

How Do We Develop This Kind of Faith?

1. By Hearing God’s Word

Faith grows when we expose our hearts to Scripture. God’s Word reveals His character, His promises, His ways, and His heart toward us.

2. By Practicing Trust in Small Steps

Faith grows like a muscle. The more we use it, the stronger it becomes. Trusting God in small decisions prepares us to trust Him in larger ones.

3. By Remembering His Faithfulness

Looking back at what God has done—both in Scripture and in our own lives—builds confidence for what He will do next.

4. By Walking With Others Who Believe

Faith is strengthened in community. We learn from the testimonies, encouragement, and wisdom of others who are walking with God.

A Story: The Farmer Who Learned to Trust

There was once a farmer who lived through a long, brutal drought. His crops withered, his income dried up, and his hope began to fade. Every day he walked his fields, staring at cracked soil and empty skies.

One afternoon, after weeks of discouragement, he knelt in the dust and prayed, “Lord, I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried everything I know. If You don’t help me, I’m lost.”

That night, he opened his Bible and read Romans 10:17. Something stirred in him. He realized he had been relying on his own strength, his own strategies, and his own understanding. He believed in God, but he hadn’t been listening to God.

So he made a decision: every morning, before stepping into his fields, he would step into God’s Word. He would listen. He would trust. He would obey whatever God placed on his heart.

Weeks passed. The drought didn’t break immediately. But something changed in the farmer. He had peace. He had direction. He had hope. And then—slowly—the rains returned. His fields revived. His harvest came in fuller than he expected.

Later he said, “The real miracle wasn’t the rain. The real miracle was learning to trust God before the rain came.”

We Need God More Than Ever

Our society tells us we can take care of ourselves. But the brokenness around us—and within us—tells a different story. We need God’s wisdom. We need His truth. We need His presence. And we need the faith that comes from hearing His Word.

God is not distant. He is not reluctant. He is not indifferent. He longs to guide us, bless us, and walk with us. But we must choose to listen. We must choose to trust. We must choose to believe.

Faith is not a religious accessory—it is the foundation of a life that truly flourishes.

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All Lives Matter To God

 

"The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is long suffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9) 

There is no where in the Bible that states or eludes to the fact that God is racist. Since He created all of man-kind, God loves everyone of every race. So we as Christians, who are God loving people, are not to be racist either. But in our society we have fought the racial war for too long. Just when we thought that we were gaining some ground with this issue, it seems like we have taken two steps back. Out text says it well; God "is long suffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance."(v.9) In essence Peter is saying that "All lives matter to God!"And if all lives matter to God, than all lives should matter to each one of us. 

To me it is evil and immature to be prejudice, and to treat people of a different color and race with disrespect. When Peter says that God wants all to come to repentance, and establish a saving relationship with Jesus Christ; the call is to everyone from every race and nationality. 

He is calling the world to accept His Son as Savior and Lord. As the church we need to speak out against prejudice, and keep trying to move the line towards the positive. 

To say and to live out the fact that "All lives Matter To God!" GP 

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Pleasing God With Our Faith

 

Pleasing God With Our Faith 

Hebrews 11:6 

The trials of life can test every fiber of our being. Worry can eat us from the inside out, if we let it. Stomach ulcers, heart problems, painful headaches, a nervous breakdown, are all results of severe stress and anxiety. The question comes; How can we be at peace when it seems as if our world is crashing down around us? How can we make things right, when we face such limitations. 

The Hebrew writer tells us that the greatest way to please God, is to place our complete faith in Him. To trust Him, no matter how severe a storm we are going through. We must "believe that God exists, and that He is the rewarder of all those who seek Him" (v.6) 

I remember my father-in-law being asked what he would do if the airplane he was on went down. He confidently responded: "Go with it!" He knew who had his life, and his soul, no matter what happened.

I hope that I can have that much faith. 

All through the Bible, God has expected His people to exercise faith. 

In fact with Abraham, it was His faith that brought about His righteousness" (Galatians 3:6) And it is the same with us, as we trust in Jesus Christ, as our Savior, to provide the sacrifice needed to atone for our sins. We are to have complete faith in what Jesus did for us on the cross of Calvary. 

God is pleased with us, when we place our whole lives in His hands. 

He wants to provide the very best for us, and he wants us to have faith that He can, and will. No matter if you are dealing with a serious illness, or a financial situation, or a problem in a relationship. Believe, that God has your best interest at heart, and that He will provide the means for you to deal with these challenges. 

Let us say with the Apostle Paul: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13) GP

What A Cardinal Can Do, Christ Has Done

 

What a Cardinal Can Do, Christ Has Done.

On a gray winter morning, the world can feel muted. The sky hangs low, the trees stand bare, and the landscape seems wrapped in a blanket of dullness. Everything looks still lifeless, and cold. But then—without warning—a brilliant red cardinal sweeps into the scene. Suddenly the whole picture changes. The splash of color transforms the dreariness into something hopeful, almost joyful. One small bird shifts the atmosphere.

Our spiritual lives can feel a lot like that winter landscape. Before Christ, we carry the weight of our old selves—habits that drain us, desires that deceive us, and patterns that leave us feeling dim, discouraged, and stuck. The apostle Paul understood this well. Writing to the believers in Ephesus, he urged them to step away from the old darkened way of life and embrace something entirely new—something only Jesus can create within us.

Paul writes that we are called “to put off your old self… and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds  and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.” (Ephesians 4:22–24)

This isn’t a self-improvement project. It isn’t a matter of trying harder or polishing up the outside. It is transformation—deep, soul-level renewal that only Christ can accomplish. What the cardinal does to a bleak winter scene, Jesus does to the human heart. He brings color where there was only gray. He brings life where there was only coldness. He brings hope where there was only heaviness.

Like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, we are invited to shed the old and step into the new. Jesus doesn’t just brighten our lives—He recreates them. He reshapes our desires, renews our minds, and restores our identity. He changes the look of our lives both inside and out.

The winter scene cannot brighten itself. The cardinal must enter. In the same way, we cannot transform ourselves. Christ must come in. And when He does, everything changes.

Prayer:  

Lord Jesus, thank You for stepping into the gray places of our lives with Your transforming presence. Help us to put off our old selves and fully embrace the new life You offer. Renew our minds, reshape our desires, and make us more like You in righteousness and holiness. Bring Your color, Your hope, and Your life into every part of us. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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THE CHRISTIAN JOURNEYMAN (January/2026)

 

The Authenticity Of Jesus Christ 

 "He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by Him all things were created that are in heaven and that are on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers. All things were created through Him and for Him." 

(Colossians 1:15-16)

 When someone comes on the world scene, and teaches divine truth with great authority, performs such wonderful miracles, and places Himself in line with Old Testament prophecy, and by His life, ministry, death, burial, and resurrection, fulfills it, right down to the nail; would you question His authenticity? Many do even today. 

Many question the physical evidence, but when I look at the spiritual evidence, (especially the way He has worked in my life) Jesus has given me inner strength after I spent much time in prayer. He has taught me, and encouraged me, with His Word, when I was going through some rough times. He has provided healing when I when through some health issues. He has provided for me, and my family faithfully. Jesus has been with me as I performed the tasks of pastoral ministry. I couldn't have done it all, without His help. Now that is my evidence. for me. 

To know the authenticity of Jesus, is in your fellowship with Him, every single day. The more you spend time with Him, the more you experience the reality of His person, and presence. I read something that really made me think about the time I spend with the Lord Jesus Christ: 

"If you are really overwhelmed, it may be that you are spending more time with the world, that you are with the Lord."

Each person has to experience Jesus Christ for themselves. 

Today instead of being filled with questions, let's discover what only Jesus can provide. The blessing of His presence, and the fulfillment of His promises for our lives! GP

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THE TRUTH, AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH 

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THE NEW YEAR BUNDLE FOR 2026(A LOOK AT TIME) 

Top Priority In 2026

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Plans For You 

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As Time Goes By 

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SERMON STREET 

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A LIGHT UNTO MY PATH (TCJ-Bible Study) 

Do You Really Love Jesus? (Please Click Link Below)

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God's Word On It! 

Critical Compromise 

"Nevertheless, to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind." (Philippians 3:16)

I like what I read on a website published by the Church of The Brethren * " In a Utopian world, there would be no conflict, and perhaps, in a perfect church, no disagreement. But in reality, the church is not perfect. It is a human organization. We have distinct perspectives that sometimes lead to disagreements, and occasionally, to conflict. Conflict in itself is not necessarily destructive; conflict can be constructive when it is processed in a spiritually healthy manner." 

(https://www.brethren.org/ac/statements/2004-congregational-disagreements/)

There are churches today that find themselves in conflict with their conference organizations over various issues that challenge their beliefs and practices. In many churches today, we are facing what 

I call "a critical compromise." We won't stand up for Biblical truth, but bow to moral leniency. 

My experience as a pastor for almost fifty years, has been in the service of the (Christian Churches/Churches of Christ-Restoration Movement).

I have never been a pastor responsible to, or the beneficiary of a conference organization. 

But it has been my belief and practice to have in first place; the preaching and teaching of The Word of God. To me the Word of God is the complete and final authority, in all that we believe, teach, and practice. 

What is the apostle Paul talking about when He states in our text: "Let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind?" He is calling us as individual Christians (who make up the body of Christ) to strive to be like Christ, and to live out His teachings in our lives. How do we do that, if we don't live out the Word of God in our lives? 

And the church is to lead out in this pursuit. Whether it is as individual Christians, or a church that is governed by a supervisory council, or a church of independent means. We are to abide by the teaching of the Word of God, instead of human idealism or emotion. We are never to twist the Word of God to fit our agenda, but we are to allow the Word of God to have the final Word in all that we do in our Christian experience. 

The apostle Paul tells Timothy what the purpose of the Word of God is in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (Please read) I don't see in those two verses, the wisdom, or ideas of man mentioned as the means to help the (man) of God to be "complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." (v.17) 

Who is our divine, ultimate teacher? It is the Holy Spirit! (John 16:14-15 Please read) 

The apostle Paul describes our responsibility as Christians, whether we are in Christian leadership, or members of the body of Christ in 

2 Corinthians 4:7 "But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us." We are the earthen vessels in which the glorious truth of the Gospel of Jesus Christ has been poured. 

But we must remember, that we are not to add to God's Word, or take anything away (Revelation 22:19-20; but abide by the Word of our true Vine, Jesus Christ (John 15:1-5) We are to live it out in our own lives, share it with those who need to be saved, and directed by it, (Romans 10:17).

God's Word is the complete and final authority to help us have a final and complete fit, so we will be ready when the Lord returns to take us home to be with Him forever. GP  

THE PRECIOUS CHOICE 

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One Place 

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Ministry 127 - Sermon Illustrations 

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Executable Outlines 

"Welcome! Here you will find over 1800 sermon outlines, Bible studies, PowerPoint files, and gospel tracts freely available by Mark A. Copeland (more info). They are called "executable" because they were first distributed in an executable DOS program. The name has been retained for I have been told "These outlines really execute!" (ex-e-cute: perform or carry out what is required). My prayer is they can help execute the Word of God in your life!"

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POEM PANTRY 

Present Tense

By Nathan Patterson

Present tense is here.

Our future is what lies ahead.

Letting go of the past.

Moving into a new year.

Choosing to live in the moment.

Throwing away all the memories of yesterday.

Cherishing what is apart of this time zone.

In every possible sense.

Were never alone in the present tense. 

His Unfailing Presence

Another year I enter

Its history unknown;

Oh, how my feet would tremble

To tread its paths alone!

But I have heard a whisper,

I know I shall be blest;

"My presence shall go with thee,

And I will give thee rest."

What will the New Year bring me?

I may not, must not know;

Will it be love and rapture,

Or loneliness and woe?

Hush! Hush! I hear His whisper;

I surely shall be blest;

"My presence shall go with thee,

And I will give thee rest."

(Unknown Author) 

Just One Request

Dear Master for this coming year

Just one request I bring:

I do not pray for happiness,

Or any earthly thing—

I do not ask to understand

The way Thou leadest me,

But this I ask: Teach me to do

The thing that pleaseth Thee.

I want to know Thy guiding voice,

To walk with Thee each day.

Dear Master make me swift to hear

And ready to obey.

And thus the year I now begin

A happy year will be—

If I am seeking just to do

The thing that pleaseth Thee.

(Unknown Author) 

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Christmas Challenges (Part Four)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Four) 

The Challenge Of The Future 

"But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in here heart." (Luke 2:19) 

The gospel writer Luke makes a stunning statement concerning Mary's response to all the happenings surrounding the birth of Jesus. He says that Mary "pondered" or "weighed" all these things in her heart. The popular song asks Mary the question: "Mary Did You Know?" 

In essence, Mary did you really get a hold of the significance of this special Child that you brought into the world? How important was His mission to be the 'Savior" of the world? 

I can't help but think that in this pondering, Mary is thinking about the future for God's baby Boy. How will the future events play out in the life of Jesus? How will this special Child of God deal with the challenge of the future? 

As we look at our own lives, how do we deal with the challenge of the future? Is it with excitement, or is it with great dread? We will be coming into a new year of 2026; and in this new year, what will motivate us to enter it with confidence and enthusiasm? 

The Hebrew writer has some words concerning the attitude that Jesus held as He faced the challenge of the future. "...looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of God." (Hebrews 12:2) Did Jesus have joy in the experience of the cross? Certainly not! His joy was founded in in what the cross would mean for the world...for you and me. 

Like Mary we can "ponder" how Jesus has made a difference in our lives; in our past, and present. No doubt life is made up of ups and downs, twists and turns. And the Lord Jesus Christ keeps us in the balance when our circumstances crumble around us. 

Our foundation of Jesus Christ is strong and sure. As Mary saw this Child that she carried, was victorious all the way to eternity; we like her, can hold on to a great hope for the future. That whatever comes our way, we know that the Lord Jesus Christ will help us to be victorious, and to arrive safely to our eternal home! (John 14:1-3) 

Christmas Challenges (Part Three)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Three) 

THE CHALLENGE OF FORGIVENESS 

 "And she will bring forth a Son, and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins." "In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace." (Matthew 1:21, Ephesians 1:7) 

"There was a king who had suffered much from his rebellious subjects. But one day they surrendered their arms, threw themselves at his feet, and begged for mercy. He pardoned them all. One of his friends said to him, “Did you not say that every rebel should die?” “Yes,” replied the king, “but I see no rebels here.” (Ministry 127) 

 We could boldly say that the purpose of the Christ-Child coming to this world, was to save the world from sin. In the center of this salvation is forgiveness of our sins. By accepting Jesus as our Savior, we are receiving the forgiveness that God wants us to have. But the challenge at Christmas is two-fold. 

First Of All, The Challenge Of Receiving This Forgiveness. 

Jesus gave His life as a sacrifice for our sins, but we must in faith reach out to obtain it. That means that we must be like these rebellious subjects in our story. We must surrender our lives totally to our Lord, and Savior Jesus Christ. The challenge at Christmas, as well as all through the year, is that people refuse to look to Jesus, to liberate them from the chains of sin, self, and guilt. The world can be a place where we can have a good time, especially at Christmas. A place where we can have temporary thrills, to make us feel good about life for a time. 

But the world can never provide the deep need for a right relationship with God. That inner peace, and contentment that only God can provide through His Son. To feel forgiven from a sinful, and self-pursuing lifestyle, is only found in our total surrender to Jesus our Savior. 

Will we do it today? 

Secondly, The Challenge Of Showing This Forgiveness. 

In the process of everyday living, we end up hurting others, and being hurt by others. If there one thing that is hard for people to do, it is to forgive. When we make a fist, and we hold that fist tightly over a period of time, it doesn't feel very good. We can feel the tension getting worse, and worse. It's only when we release that fist, that the tension goes away, and we feel better. That's what forgiveness does for our hearts. The challenge is that we make a fist with our hearts, and we hold on to the hurt, and those bitter feelings, so long, that the misery becomes so overwhelming. How much better to forgive, and release those terrible bitter feelings. Even if those who have hurt us, have no intention of apologizing, and making things right, it is still is a very healing balm for our hearts. 

 Our awesome, loving, God wants us to be forgiven, and to exercise forgiveness. He has done His part through His Son. Will we do our part, and submit to His will, and His care? The heart of the challenge of forgiveness, is that it is a choice that we must make!

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Christmas Challenges (Series - Part Two)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part Two) 

THE CHALLENGE OF FAMILY 

 "Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not wanting to make her (Mary) a public example, was minded to put her away secretly. But while he thought about these things, behold an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, "Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take to you Mary your wife, for that which is conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit." (Matthew 1:19-20) 

How can family be a Christmas challenge? It was for Mary and Joseph. Here Mary is with child before they came together as husband and wife. It is not mentioned in the text how her family felt about this discovery. 

I am sure it was with shock and unbelief, along with a severe disappointment with Mary. In other words, "Mary how could you have done such a thing? How are we going to explain this, not only to our family and friends, but to the religious order?" 

And here in the midst of the betrothal, what is Joseph to do? 

He is to become apart of the family, but now he must decide what to do with Mary. He does not want to put her life in danger as we find in Deuteronomy 22:23-24 (Please read), but to divorce her quietly. 

In her family's defense, along with Joseph, we can understand their initial response. But an angel came to Joseph in a dream, and assured him that it is the will of God that he take Mary as his wife. Because the baby she is carrying, was conceived by the Holy Spirit. And the question comes to my mind, would her family and friends, and the religious order, accept that truth? 

 It is evident to me, that Mary and Joseph felt alone in the decision they made. I don't see the family support in this. She now is in the category of being like a prostitute, and they would not have that taint the reputation of the family. Do we see the challenge yet? I'm sure we do. 

The question I want us to look at is" "In what Mary and Joseph went through, how does this apply to us today?" I believe that in many families today, the total focus of the Christ Child is not happening at Christmas. Yes, the materialistic side of Christmas is pursued, as we get into the purchase of gifts. The pleasurable side of Christmas is enjoyed, as we plan and participate in social parties and family gatherings. 

And if your family is not into the total worship of the Lord Jesus Christ, and of putting Jesus, the Christ Child first at Christmas, there will be a misunderstanding of priorities in the family. "Why are you going to church for a Christmas eve service?" "Why are you always talking about why Jesus came into this world?" "Why do you care so much about the needs of others at Christmas?" "Shouldn't you be focused on having fun, and self fulfillment?" 

Like Mary and Joseph we feel alone in our worship and total focus of the Christ-Child. But there comes an inner peace, as we draw near to the Lord. In this worship, God comes to us, and His presence embraces us, and makes us feel that we are not alone, but that He is with us. 

He is Emmanuel - God with us always! 

In spite of the challenges of family, when we put the Christ-Child first, and let everything else about Christmas be placed down the list of priorities, it Is then, that we will feel that we are having more than a "White Christmas", but we are having a "Right Christmas!" GP 

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Christmas Challenges (Part One)

 

Christmas Challenges (Part One) 

The Challenge of Focus

There are those faulty misconceptions, selfish attitudes and actions, and worldly activities that challenge the biblical message, and meaning of Christmas. How does the birth of the Christ-Child cause us to think and act in the right way, during this Christmas season? There are challenges that we face as Christians, at Christmas, as well as all year long; that I want us to look at in this series entitled: Christmas Challenges. 

We will look at four of them: 

1. The Challenge of Focus 

2. The Challenge of Family 

3. The Challenge of Forgiveness 

4. The Challenge of the Future 

The Challenge of Focus 

"Has anyone ever asked you this question? "What did the pastor preach on last Sunday?" You smile, and cringe inside, racking your brain for the subject or verse he used. If you have never been caught in this predicament, what you were trying to remember was a blur in your mind. I think this happens to all of us, and we need to let it be a reminder, to stay focused on the preaching of God's Word. ("Staying Focused" By Terrie Chapell - January 30,2010 Ministry 127) 

When it comes to the message and meaning of the birth of the Christ-Child, we don't want to be like a camera out of focus. Our goal should be to have a clear, steadfast focus on the Biblical presentation and purpose of the angel's announcement to the shepherds, and to the world. 

"Do not be afraid, for behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people, "for there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." (Luke 2:10-11) 

I believe there are two words in the angel's announcement that should cut through the blur of the mis-conceptions, and the dominance of the worldly attitudes and activities at Christmas. Those two words are: 

"to you" This announcement is not just a prophetic message, it is a personal message. "For there is born "to you" this day...a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." 

Jesus came into this world to be a Savior for you, and for me. 

The challenge this Christmas, as well as everyday, is to focus on this heavenly gift to us. We need to accept this gift, believe the gift, submit and embrace this gift with all of our heart. 

 Let's not let the confusion and chaos at Christmas cause us to have a spiritual blur of what is most significant, and meaningful at Christmas, and everyday of our lives. If Jesus (as our heavenly gift) is to be Savior, and Lord of our lives. May it be the main focus of our hearts, and our lives. May it be seen in our lives, not only at Christmas, but every moment we live! GP 

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Peace In The Midst Of Change

 

Peace In The Midst Of Change

Have you ever had life turn on a dime? Things were going good, not perfect, but very doable. And then something happened to turn just about everything upside down. That's happened to a lot of people; it has happened to me. Well here are some Biblical insights that I hope will help in the healing and restoration process.

Peace in the Midst of Change

Scripture

"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever." — Hebrews 13:8  

Reflection

Life can shift in an instant. A job loss, a health diagnosis, a move, or unexpected news can leave us feeling shaken and desperate to return to “normal.” Stress rises when the ground beneath us feels unstable. Yet Scripture reminds us that while circumstances change, God does not change.  

Hebrews 13:8 anchors us in this truth: Jesus is constant. His love, His promises, and His presence remain steady even when everything else feels uncertain. When the storm rages, He is the calm. When routines collapse, He is the Rock.  

Think of the disciples in the boat during the storm (Mark 4:35–41). Waves crashed, fear consumed them, and yet Jesus was present. With a word, He brought peace. In the same way, He speaks peace into our chaos today.  

Encouragement

God is your stability: Even if life feels upside down, His character never shifts.  

You don’t have to fix everything at once: God invites you to rest in Him while He works.  

Peace is possible now: Not when things return to “normal,” but right here in the middle of change.  

Prayer

Lord, You know the stress and fear that sudden changes bring. Thank You that You never change, even when everything else does. Help me to trust You as my anchor. Speak peace into my heart and guide me step by step. Remind me that You are faithful yesterday, today, and forever. Amen.  

Practical Step

Take five minutes today to pause and breathe deeply. As you inhale, whisper: “God is with me.” As you exhale, whisper: “I will trust Him.” Repeat until your heart begins to rest in His unchanging presence.  

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Family Expectations

"While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.”But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.” (Matthew 12:46-50) 

From our text, we see where Jesus places his family, in regards to His relationship with the Heavenly Father, and His purpose.

While Jesus was speaking to the people, His family show up, and want to speak to Him. Jesus gave a surprising response in the words of our text. In what He said, is Jesus saying that family is not important? No, but family is not to be more important than our relationship to God. and our ministry for Him.

But the irony of it is, that if we place God as first and foremost in our lives, our family relationships will be better, as well as all, of our relationships. God will show us from His Word, how we are to treat each other, and how we can minister to one another.

The main goal of our lives is to do the will of our Heavenly Father. In many families there are many expectations. And for some, if you don't meet those expectations, you are treated coldly. Some family members will not speak to one another for a long period of time because of this.

The greatest commandments are the expectations of our Heavenly Father. We are to love Him, with all that we have, and we are to love each other unconditionally. Yes, it is a matter of priorities, and a matter of humility and submission.

I know that even when I mess up and do not live up to the expectations of God, that He still loves me, and will not abandon me. We all need to get a grip on what is greatly important and adjust to fulfilling the will of God in all of our lives. GP

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Precious Thanksgiving Memories

 

Precious Thanksgiving Memories

"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change." (James 1:17)

One the precious gifts the Lord has given me is a Thanksgiving memory illustrated in our post-article photo. I remember watching my grandmother meticulously cook and tend to the turkey for our Thanksgiving dinner. I remember the many TG dinners, where she cooked for a house full of family and friends. I hope you have good Thanksgiving memories as well.

As Christmas looms on the horizon, we focus on the gift giving at Christmas, in hopes that we find our loved ones that one and perfect gift. In our text, we can agree with James, that our best efforts at gift giving, cannot compare with the gifts that come from our "Father of lights."

Of course, what can compare to the gift of His Son, who was given, to meet our desperate need of salvation, and the hope of eternal life. (John 3:16)

But In looking back on the year, leading right up to Christmas, God has given me, and my family, the gift of His presence, and providence in our lives. He has not left any stone unturned. The apostle Paul writes, "And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:19)

In God's way, and in His time, the gifts of His love, come pouring into our lives. 

This picture that reflects the love and sacrifice of my grandmother, not only at Thanksgiving, but in the days she was present in my life, reflects the love and sacrifice of our Lord, and Savior Jesus Christ. He came to this world, on behalf of the Father, to bring to us new life, and new hope. Precious Thanksgiving memories, how precious to sooth our souls! GP

You Don't Have To Agree With Them, To Love Them!

 

You Don't Have To Agree With Them, To Love Them!

I remember many times, when I had disagreements with my parents. There were times when I did not speak to my parents because of our sharp disagreements. Looking back now, with both my parents gone home to heaven, it makes me think how wrong this was. 

You don’t have to agree with your parents to love them—the Bible emphasizes honor and respect, not blind agreement. Scripture teaches that honoring parents is about showing care, gratitude, and dignity, even when you differ in beliefs or choices.  

Key Biblical Insights

Honor ≠ Agreement  

  - Exodus 20:12 commands: “Honor your father and your mother…” This is about respect and value, not necessarily adopting their views.  

  - Ephesians 6:2 calls honoring parents “the first commandment with a promise,” linking it to blessing, not conformity.  

Respect in Disagreement  

  - Proverbs 19:26 warns against dishonoring parents, but disagreement itself isn’t dishonor. Dishonor comes from ridicule, neglect, or contempt.  

  - Leviticus 19:3 says, “Each of you must respect your mother and father.” Respect can coexist with differing convictions.  

Love Through Care and Gratitude  

  - Honoring parents includes caring for them in their needs (see Mark 7:10–12 where Jesus rebukes those who neglect parents under religious pretense).  

  - Love is expressed in kindness, patience, and gratitude (1 Corinthians 13), even when perspectives clash.  

Practical Applications

Boundaries with Love  

  - You can respectfully say, “I see things differently,” while still showing kindness and maintaining relationship.  

  - Love means seeking peace (Romans 12:18), not erasing differences.  

Adult Relationships  

  - As children grow, obedience shifts to honor. Adults are not commanded to obey parents in every matter, but to continue showing respect and care.  

Christ’s Example  

  - Jesus Himself honored His earthly parents (Luke 2:51) yet prioritized God’s mission when it diverged from their understanding (Mark 3:31–35). This shows that love and honor can coexist with disagreement.  

Takeaway

The Bible teaches that love for parents is expressed through honor, respect, and care—not through uniformity of thought. You can disagree with their opinions, choices, or worldview, yet still fulfill God’s command to honor them by treating them with dignity, gratitude, and compassion.  

In a small village, every year the Lantern Festival lit up the night sky. A young boy named Wei grew up watching his parents work tirelessly in the rice fields, rarely having time to enjoy the celebrations. He noticed how his father’s hands were calloused and his mother’s back bent from years of labor, yet they never complained—they only smiled when Wei asked about the festival, saying, “One day, you’ll carry the light for us.”

Years passed, and Wei became a skilled craftsman. On the eve of the Lantern Festival, instead of joining his friends, he built two enormous lanterns shaped like cranes—symbols of longevity and respect. He carried them to the village square and lit them himself, dedicating them to his parents. The villagers gathered, marveling at the glowing cranes soaring above the crowd. Wei’s parents, standing quietly at the edge, were moved to tears. For the first time, they didn’t just watch the festival—they were honored at its heart.

From then on, the cranes became a tradition, reminding everyone that honoring one’s parents is not only about gratitude but about lifting them into the light they gave us.

Let's not let our disagreements destroy the time we have with our parents. This is where pride needs to be put aside, to foster wonderful moments and memories, that we can hold on to as we journey through this life.

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Midnight Praise

"But about midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns of praise to God, and the prisoners were listening to them:..." (Acts 16:25) 

What do you do when you go through a tough time? It is a natural tendency to strike out at the negative situation, and grumble and complain the whole time of the experience.

 Would you have done what Paul and Silas did, while they were placed in a prison at Philippi? They had their robes tore off them, and they were beaten with rods (inflicted with many blows) and thrown into prison, (their feet fastened in stocks) (Acts 16:23-24).

Instead of grumbling, and complaining, and focusing on the negative state they were in; they began to pray and to sing hymns of praise. You ask: How could you pray, and thank God for being in a situation like that?

Paul and Silas knew the key to dealing with negative situations.

When you give praise to God, you take the focus off the negative, and place it on the positive. When we count our blessings, it takes the sting of worry, and discouragement out of our hearts.

And secondly, it helps us to focus on (not the problem) but the problem solver-God. Just as God brought us through tough times before, He will do it again. And we give thanks for the love, and faithfulness of God.

And third: Luke wanted his readers to note, as Paul and Silas were praying and singing praises to God, the other prisoners were listening. What an opportunity to be a witness for God.

Yes God is with us at the midnight hour, when all is not right. But the best thing, at all times, is that God is with us! GP

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